amias-as-i-am

open message to pan/bi+/queer people attracted to multiple genders, or questioning if that may be the case -

  • your partner's gender does not make you any less queer, because whether or not you are queer is specific to you
  • the genders involved in your dating history do not make you any less queer
  • you belong in queer spaces regardless of your relationship history or status
  • pan/bi+/polysexual are different terms with a lot of definitional overlap. the difference matters more to some folks than others but the umbrella is big enough for all of us
  • it's okay for your chosen labels to shift over time; growing and learning about yourself is, and always will be, a process, and attraction is a beautiful and ephemeral thing
  • use the terms for yourself you find most comfortable and the ones that keep you the safest
  • don't force a relationship that isn't working to try to prove something
  • you're not "faking" anything. just follow what feels most authentic to you
  • there is much strength in knowing yourself

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